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What is a vow renewal and why do couples choose to have one? • How do the ceremony and vows for a renewal or affirmation differ from the ceremony for a wedding? • How formal should the event and attire be? • What about flowers and other decorations?  • Should there be attendants? • What should the invitations say? • What reception traditions from the wedding are appropriate for a renewal reception? • How can couples involve their children and families? • Songs/readings that are especially vow-renewal-appropriate? • What about other diplomatic concerns?  • What about gifts? • Renewal of Vows Example 1  • Renewal of Vows Example 2  • Renewal of Vows Example 3 • Renewal of Vows Example 4 • Renewal of Vows Example 5
 

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How does someone honor a deceased child at their vow renewals?  I'm sure this has been done before.  We would like to include her- -in the ceremony, invitations, vows, and reception.  Please give us some ideas
 
I commend your desire to renew your vows and demonstrate that love can triumph even in tragedy.
 
It would be improper to mention your daughter in the invitation, but it would be most appropriate to mention her in the ceremony and at the reception.  You can place a memorial white rose or a memorial candle near the altar or ceremony area.  
 
When you write your vows, say something to effect that even through the death of your daughter  your commitment to each other has remained strong.  You might mention that she is with you in spirit on this special day.
 
At the reception, you or your husband can thank the guests for coming and mention your daughter and the things you have gone through.  Just be sure to focus on the happiness of the day, too, rather than making this a memorial service.
 
Best wishes to you.
 
Glenna Tooman, ForeverWed.com Wedding Consultant

 
 
 



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