Here is a few examples of a declaration of intent:
This declaration can be one of the key parts of the wedding and
could be considered to be part of the vows or promises. Notice the
language focuses on what you "will", not on what you "do". This is
very deliberate. It is meant to remind you that your "Will" is key to
your relationship.
Normally it is after the declaration that the "blessing of the
families" (or the "giving away") is done. The vows then follow.
STYLE ONE (traditional)
- Name -, will you have this woman to be your wife?
- Rx - I will.
- Name -, will you have this man to be your husband?
- Rx - I will.
STYLE TWO (personalized)
- Name - will you take - Name - to be your wife?
- Rx - I will.
- Name - will you take - Name - to be husband?
- Rx - I will.
STYLE THREE (reformed)
- Name -, will you have - Name - to be your wedded wife, to live
together in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort
her, honor her and keep her, in sickness and in health; and forsaking
all others remain loyal to her as long as you both shall live?
- Rx - I Will
- Name - , will you have - Name - to be your wedded husband, to live
together in the holy estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort
him, honor him and keep him, in sickness and in health; and forsaking
all others remain loyal to him as long as you both shall live?
- Rx - I will.
