Ideas on How To Pop The Question
Written by  Christy Anderson

It's a milestone in your relationship and you are faced with the dilemma of how to pop the big question. Of course, some of us are extremely creative in this undertaking, while some of us struggle for the words or theme to make the proposal. There is a certain nervousness, apprehension and creativity that drives the big question. It's a moment that everyone dreams of, no matter who does the asking. Your future bride will tell her engagement stories time and time again in the future. Why not give her wonderful story to tell. After all, what's a beautiful diamond ring to her friends around the water cooler at work without an incredible story to accompany it?

These are the type of things you'll want to consider while planning your proposal. Now, let your imagination run wild and brainstorm on the perfect way to ask her. You'll want to be sure to revolve the idea around something of interest to her. This event is about her. So, think about what matters to her, even if it doesn't mean as much to you. This event is about showing her how much you love her and the lengths to which her love inspires you. For instance, if she loves going to the movies with you, you might want to surprise her with a marriage proposal written on the screen at your local movie theater. If she's an ocean-lover, how about writing it in the sand at the beach? If her favorite color is pink, try enclosing it in a pink balloon bouquet for her to pop and read the message within the balloon?

Maybe your sweetie is adventurous. In that case, take some time and arrange a scavenger hunt and have the last clue lead to the ring. How about sports? When you're running that marathon, why not fake a leg cramp and drop to your knee along the race and ask her at the sidelines? The list goes on. Hopefully these few ideas on proposing have at least sparked your imagination on how to make it special.

Now, when you have thought on the concept that you will use, you'll want to begin strategizing the plan. Take a moment and review our "marriage proposal checklist" before rushing to ask her on the fly while at the local Dairy Queen.

Creative Marriage Proposal Checklist

Have you identified a creative scenario that strikes you as the perfect fit for her?

Have you secured the various supplies, preparations necessary?

Have you thought about what friend or family member you need to help you?

Have you given her the appropriate clues to pull it off?

Have you arranged for the location to be available?

Have you decided how you want to word your proposal?

Have you investigated what type, style and cut of diamond she likes?

Have you determined whether to let her pick it out or whether you'll surprise her?

Have you purchased or made plans to purchase the diamond?

Have you selected a date and time to pop the question?

These are the type questions you'll want to ask to really plan the marriage proposal well. Remember that a strong and happy relationship goes far beyond the excitement of this magical moment. But, the beginning of a fun marriage is made up of moments like this. And this just happens to be a moment that you can prepare for in such a way that you will both remember it forever!

Christy Anderson is the author of the virtual book "Down On One Knee - A Guide To Proposing Marriage With Finesse". The book offers an abundance of creative scenarios on popping the question as well as tips for honeymoon romance and more. For information on ordering, visit www.proposingmarriage.com.