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How to Deal
with the Stress of Planning a Wedding
Written by Ann Marie Sterling, Elegant Creations Event Coordination
Weddings = Stress
No matter who you are, what you do or how much money you make, this statement holds true.
The AMOUNT of stress you endure is entirely up to you. With a little research and some
family support, you can reduce the stress and actually have fun planning the wedding of
your dreams.
Being an avid reader and an overachiever at organization, I wanted to be ready for any
question or idea that a prospective bride proposed. I read every book I could get my hands
on relating to weddings, themes, etiquette, customs and unique ideas. The more I read, I
realized what they all had in common was one simple message...Plan the wedding YOU want!.
No what your mother, Emily Post, or Miss Manners would want. Do what is going to make you
and your fiancée happy. It's your day and you deserve to have happy memories.
Don't be afraid to ask family or close friends for help. Does Aunt Debbie have good
penmanship? Ask for help with addressing invitations. Does your sister Sandy have a
trusted friend who caters? Ask for help with the food coordination. They will feel honored
you trusted them to help make your day special. The more delegating you do, the less
overwhelming your details will seem.
When you decide what type of theme or idea you want for your wedding...DO IT! Don't worry
if Aunt Zelda is appalled because you've decided to marry on a beach wearing a grass
skirt. This is your day. Of course you want your guests to be comfortable and have fun, so
keep the activities legal and moral.
Most importantly, the more time you have to research facilities and vendors, the better
the deal you're going to get. Thus saving you money. And what's more stressful than
passing out money hand over fist? Nothing I can think of!
If all this seems so overwhelming you're about to burst into tears as we speak, consider
hiring a wedding coordinator. These people handle details for a living, relieving you of
the hassles and stress. Their cost is usually folded into the amount you would pay for the
wedding, had you planned it yourself. Don't be afraid of them taking over your day. The
true professional will coordinate every detail according to your exact specifications. Be
as honest as possible. Tell them exactly what your ideas, expectations and budget limits
are so they can fulfill your every desire.
I wish you a truly happy engagement. May God bless your future together.
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