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Bridesmaids and Groomsmen: Getting to Know Each Other
Written by Joe & Sheri, recent newlyweds

The BEST piece of advice I ever read was a little short three sentence blurb about one bride who had her bridesmaids get together a couple of months BEFORE the wedding. I have 7 bridesmaids in my wedding, they are friends I met in grade school, some in high school, others in college, and one is going to be my new sister-in-law.

Although I could not afford to have them all flown in, I planned it early enough that those from out of town were able to get cheap airline tickets, and I planned it over a 3 day weekend, so no one would have to take extra vacation days. We spent the weekend picking out bridesmaids dresses (so they could all have a say in the dress that they were going to have to dish out so much money for) watching movies, playing pool, dancing, partying, and just giving them all an opportunity to get to know each other.

We even had my fianc� invite his groomsmen on Saturday night, and the entire wedding party (16 of us altogether) headed out for a night on the town. Before that weekend, they were all a little nervous, each telling me "I'm not sure if I should go.. I won't know anyone!" They have now spent the last few months telling me they can't wait to come back out for the wedding, and most are turning it into a week vacation, instead of just a few days for the wedding.

It worked because now the entire bridal party is not going to be so worried about getting to know everyone else, or fearful of putting their two cents in, and instead just enjoying the weekend for what it should be.

Resources:

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Dismissing a Bridesmaid or other attendant

Do we send invitations to the people in our wedding party?

Do you have a suggestion of a fun, inexpensive way to ask them to be in my

Down the aisle: Who walks with the bride?

Eight Tips for Drafting a Great Team!

Fun and unique ways to ask my friends to be by my side in my wedding

Gift Ideas for your wedding attendants

Is it a new tradition to have a maid of honor and matron of honor?

Is it appropriate to have my divorced dad & mom walk me down the isle

s it tacky to have a MAID & MATRON of honor?

Is there a certain way your supposed to ask a person to be an attendant?

Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor

order of processional

When should I ask them to be my attendants?

Best man: Best Man Responsibilities

Best man: Duties of the Best man and Maid of Honor

Best man: How to choose your best man

Best man: The Morning of duties..

Best man: You've Been Chosen to be the Best man, Now Live up to it!

Best man: wedding duties for the night before

Best man: What Tuxedoes should be worn in the year 2000

Best man: Writing that wedding speech

Best man: Forum: How soon should we order the tuxedos

Best man: Speech: Examples: We have over 40 speeches

Children: Including Your Children

Children: Should you include them?

Children: Roles For Children in Weddings

Children: Ten tips on children participation in Weddings

Children: Deciding on clothing

Children: Gift Ideas for children in Weddings

Children: Make your children a part of the wedding

Children: Ring Ceremony for Baby

Children: Vows that include children

Children: Including a 2 year old in the vows and ceremony

Children: Including Babies in the Ceremony

Children: Ceremony to include children

Children: Child Attendants with sitter after ceremony?

Children: How to include step children in vows

Children: Kids In The Wedding Party�.Will They Be In Yours?

Children: Child care will be provided during the ceremony

Children: Who buys the pillow?

Duties: 10 Things Your Ushers Should Know

Duties: Best man Responsibilities

Duties: Do you know your duties? Check this list for your duties!

Duties: For a 4 year old daughter

Duties: Is it proper to have a maid and a matron of honor?

Duties: It is traditional for the bride to treat her maids to a luncheon

Duties: Duties of the Bestman and Maid of Honor

Duties: Maid of Honor Duties

Duties: What are the grooms parents suppose to pay for?

Duties: What exactly does a personal attendant to do?

Maid of Honor : Being the Maid of Honor

Maid of Honor: Ordering Dresses

Maid of Honor: Planning the Wedding Shower

Maid of Honor (MOH): Planning the Bachelorette Party

MOH: Tending to the Bride on the Big Day

MOH: Advice: Can I have a maid of honor and matron of honor?

MOH: Advice: How much money should I expect to be spending on this?

MOH: Advice: I have been asked to be Matron of Honor, there is also a Maid of Honor. Please advise me as to the logistics in the processional/recessional order for the both of us

MOH: Advice: Long Distance Maid of Honor

MOH: Advice: WHO COULD BE A MAID OF HONOR? ALSO, HOW MANY MAID OF HONOR COULD YOU HAVE AT YOUR WEDDING?

MOH: Advice: Is there a kosher way of letting her down? if I agree to follow through, while letting her know my concerns both financially and time commitment wise, is there an etiquette in letting others (friends, family, bridal party, etc.) know that I will NOT be paying for everything

MOH: Advice: What do you call a guy that stands in as your maid of honor?

MOH: Advice: maid of honor and also another friend as the matron of honor. one standing on each side.

MOH: Advice: my best friend is getting married and has asked me to be her maid of honor, what can I wear and what are all my duties?

MOH: Advice: I am matron of honor, I would like to give a very nice speech instead of making no sense and embarrassing my self

MOH: Advice: Do you have any suggestions on poems, verses, jokes, etc. that would help me start and end this speech?

MOH: Advice: I haven't told my maid of honor that I want her to be the maid of honor yet. I really want to give her a book on being a maid of honor and how I think she is so very special.

MOH: Advice: Mother as matron of honor

MOH: Advice: My cousin is getting married and I am her maid of honor. What exactly am I expected to do for the wedding

MOH: Advice: We are having 3 bridesmaids and do not want to select one as a maid of honor. Is there such a role as personal attendant who could fulfill some of the maid of honor duties?

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