the FW monthly
NEWSLETTER


Wedding Planning  Designing
Help finding a seamstress

Community •  Articles A - Z  •  Wedding Supplies  •  Ask an Expert  •  Musician/DJ Finder  •  Limo Rentals 


 

"Hello There!"
Have a Question?

Please, click here to
get real live help!

Inside our Guide
a - z planning index
Attendants
African Weddings
Bridal Beauty
Bridal Showers
Budget
Catering
Ceremony
Checklists
Centerpieces
Destination Weddings
Favor ideas
Flowers
Holiday Themes
Gift Registry
Gown search
Honeymoons
Invitations
Jewish Weddings
Jewelry
Local vendors
Marriage license
Military Weddings
Music
Money  & Legal Advice
Parties & Bridal Showers
Photography & Video
Planning Advice
Planning Timeline
Planning articles
Photography
Reception
Receptions
Rehearsals
Rehearsals Dinner
Second Weddings
Song Lists
Theme Weddings
Transportation
Vows & Passages
Wedding Cakes
Wedding Etiquette
Wedding Vows
Wedding Music & Songs
Wedding Party & Family
Wedding Programs
Wedding Speeches Wedding Worksheets

FW Lounge
Our featured couples
Couples websites
Wedding coupon club

   PRODUCT SEARCH

  Store Directory

 
 FEATURED PRODUCTS


Scrapbook Kit

$ 32.95 each

SEE MORE KEEPSAKES


Undecorated Bubbles
From $3.89

SEE MORE BUBBLES



Silver Wedding Camera
$6.59  or as low as $4.75!

 

We pledge to have the lowest prices on all of our products!!!
 If you see a lower price advertised, just call us at 1-877-672-2248  and we will beat that price!
 

 BROWSE THROUGH OUR WEDDING SUPPLIES!

Q. I'm trying to design my own wedding dress but I have no Idea where to start.  Can you could give me some good web sites or some contacts?

 

A.  If you want to design the gown and then have a seamstress make it for you, how the process goes will depend a lot on the person you work with. Different dressmakers and designers vary considerably in both their vision and their ability to carry it out. They will also vary in how careful and concerned they are to get *just the look you want*.

If you wish to design and sew your gown yourself, the results will depend on both your sewing skills and your determination. They will also depend on how much (and what quality) information you find.

My book, A Bride's Touch: A Handbook of Wedding Personality and Inspiration includes 14 pages on deciding on style, 25 on basic design and sewing, 11 more on making headpieces and accessories, about 30 pages of specific step-by-step information on cutting, fitting and construction, as well as a five-page visual "glossary" of sleeves, necklines, skirt styles, etc. It also talks very candidly about the trickiest parts of gown design and sewing, to help you decide if you are really want to do it or not.

Lots of women are very capable of making a lovely gown themselves-- but after designing and making custom gowns since the 1980's, I have seen the easiest and hardest parts. And I don't think it benefits brides or willing family members to gloss over the hard parts, as some books about wedding sewing do. I think it would be useful to you whether you want to sew your own, or want to work with a seamstress (it also discusses that subject). Look or ask at your local library, on Foreverwed.com, or at:
http://www.frazmtn.com/~ambarian/order.html  for information, table of
contents link, etc.

From A Bride's Touch, a basic strategy for designing and sewing a wedding gown would include:

~ selecting the general style/mood/character/historic influence, silhouette/proportion, color, and fabric through magazine search and shopping
~ considering issues of your personal proportions and other factors such as church restrictions
~ taking measurements
~ looking for (and perhaps altering) patterns
~ fabric shopping and purchase
~ considering seam finishes and tools/notions needed
~ planning and purchasing lace, beading and other decorations
~ making fit adjustments to the patterns
~ cutting your fabrics
~ pin-fitting
~ construction
~ finish work
~ gown storage and care

Wedding gowns really don't take particularly complicated sewing, in most cases. The reason some people become discouraged when they sew one is because the fabrics are often difficult to handle and finish the seams for, and because the fitting is more precise, in many cases, than the average "day wear" sewing project.

Decorative detailing can also seem overwhelming -- and be fairly time-consuming -- but again, the actual work is fairly straight-forward.

If time or complexity is a concern, many of the loveliest gowns are fairly simple, and decorated graciously--but only in the most important areas. (This gives you a much finer-quality product than if you scantily bead or decorate an entire gown.)

You will find other books at your library (and book or fabric store, too) that may be of help to you. A popular book is Sew Your Own Wedding from Palmer/Pletsch. It has some good information, but I disagree with several of their fit and finish methods. I believe that there are ways to accomplish the same ideas with more professional results, and I think any seamstress skilled enough to sew a wedding gown can use them. I have heard great reviews for, but have not personally read a book called something like "Bridal Couture". I have heard that it uses advanced sewing techniques and shows several actual gowns step-by-step.

Look, also, for books on historical costume, fashion history, theatre costuming (they usually have really practical information-- my favorite is The Costumer's Handbook. Sorry I don't have the author at hand; my book collection is currently in storage), personalized fitting (there are a number of books on this subject), beading and other specific sewing or decorating techniques, etc.

If you have specific concerns, do feel free to contact me directly, and I'd be happy to talk more with you about your project. I hope this gives you some direction and ideas.

Very best wishes on your gown and all your wedding plans!

Sara L. Ambarian-- Foreverwed.com Expert

Visit the Christian Bride
Wedding Store
!


To view any of our products, choose a category above.



Personalized Candy Bars



Personalized Ribbon
Great for wrapping favors and gifts!


Silver Wedding Camera
Just place one of these cameras on each table and watch your guests take wonderful candid photos.



Personalized Beverage Napkins
Personalize these cheery napkins with your names and wedding date!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Articles | Wedding Accessories | Newsletters | Local vendorsCommunity | Special Offers  Coupon Club  Contact Us
© 1997-2003 - All Rights Reserved ForeverWed.com  Legal Information