Children in the wedding ceremony

Junior Bridesmaids

Junior bridesmaids, aged eight to fifteen, wear dresses that are the same color, and may also be the same style as the other bridesmaids.  A younger looking dress and possibly lower-heeled shoes are appropriate if the junior maid is closer to eight than to fifteen.  She will lead the processional of bridal attendants.  Junior maids are often children of the bride or groom.  Including daughters in the wedding are important for building bridges to the future.  Being part of such an important occasion will never be forgotten and will become a cherished memory in the future

Do not take young children, when shopping for a bridal gown.  It is not fair to the child, as they tire easily and it is not fun for them to watch someone else try on dresses for hours on end.  Make your time with them special and memorable.  Be sure to take a camera and share your photos  as you have them developed.  Children love to have their pictures taken!

To make it fun and easy for the children who have been chosen to take part in the wedding be sure to give them the same consideration as adult attendants.  Carefully spell out details of what you expect.   For children who will be in the actual wedding ceremony, a spot of tape on the floor will help them remember where to stand, maybe even with their initials on them.

During the rehearsal, suggest the children practice more than once or twice, allowing them to be sure of what is expected.  Young children are not expected to go to the rehearsal dinner, but may do so if the bride requests it.

 

 

 
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