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Children make a delightful addition to any
wedding celebration. When including children in the wedding party, it is important
to note their enthusiasm and excitement. It often equals, if not exceeds, that
of the other attendants.
Be sure to ask early in your planning, giving the child,
"the joy of looking forward to the big day" and telling all their friends about
the beautiful dress or grown-up suit they get to wear to the wedding. It is a good
idea to make a special day for shopping or fittings with the dress maker, followed by
lunch or a trip to the ice cream parlor.
Do not take young children, when shopping for a bridal
gown. It is not fair to the child, as they tire easily and it is not fun for them to
watch someone else try on dresses for hours on end. Make your time with them special
and memorable. Be sure to take a camera and share your photos as you have them
developed. Children love to have their pictures taken!
To make it fun and easy for the children
who have been chosen to take part in the wedding be sure to give them the same
consideration as adult attendants. Carefully spell out details of what you expect.
For children who will be in the actual wedding ceremony, a spot of tape on the
floor will help them remember where to stand, maybe even with their initials on them.
During the rehearsal, suggest the children practice more
than once or twice, allowing them to be sure of what is expected. Young children are
not expected to go to the rehearsal dinner, but may do so if the bride requests it.
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