Let's face it, when some people drink, they become drunk. At your
wedding reception you don't want your drunk relative to jump on your
wedding cake while he reveals family secrets about who Johnny's real
father is, do you? Of course not, so you must prepare for this.
Meet with whoever is responsible for tending bar the evening of your
reception and warn him about relatives and friends to watch out for.
The bartender must be able to cut certain people off in a strong and
courteous manner when it's obvious that the line past "tipsy" is soon
to be crossed. If there will be multiple bartenders, they all must be
aware of the situation. If necessary, bring photographs to provide
clarity.
A professional bartender should understand that the provided drinks
should not be served strongly. Give the bartender a jigger and explain
to him the maximum strength at which drinks should be prepared.
Near the reception's end you must make sure none of your guests leave
while under the influence. In many states the host of an event is held
responsible for any damages resulting in drunkenness. If fatalities
arise due to an intoxicated guest it is possible that the host may be
charged with a felony (reckless endangerment). If you partner up with
a caterer or dealer with a state verified liquor license, you
shouldn't face this problem.
If necessary, have the best man call a local cab company to provide
your guests a safe passage to their homes or hotels.
We don't mean to frighten you. We wish you to be cautious and aware
while you enjoy this special moment in your life.
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