Q.This will be my second marriage and my fiancee's first.  I did not have a ceremony for my first marriage, so I want to have it all this time.  What are the do's and don'ts?   Another problem is my mother and father are divorced and do not get along very well at all.  How should I seat them during the ceremony?  How should the invitations be handled?  Can I forgo my married name and use my maiden, even if it is not my legal name?  As you can see I need HELP!   Any suggestions would be helpful.

Thank You,
Stephanie "second time around" W.